A Recipe that Helps You to Love Yourself More

May 24th, 2012

Ate a plate of fries the other night. Nothing else, just fries.

Felt tired and slow and pretty unmotivated afterward.

Next day, I was doing fine until mid afternoon, then the grouchies came to visit. Noticed myself making a bigger deal over things then I really needed or wanted to.

I even began to question myself, feel less confident and positive about my parenting ability. Lucky for me, I noticed myself mis-judging myself, I then put it all into perspective- “Ok Andrea, cool it, you’re a great mom, who ate junk food for dinner, ok, so your body has reacted slightly, no big deal, let it go.. move on!

This grouchy attitude was no accident, it was a result of my interesting dinner the night before.

Ok, so no guilt. I ate a plate of fries, life goes on. As a matter of fact, it was a great experience!

It gave me the opportunity to remember how I feel after eating lots of greasy food- not so hot, definitely not confident and radiant!

The antidote to feeling not so hot from eating junk food- eating clean, wholesome real food !

I just received a new cookbook in the mail this weekend: You Are What You Eat Cookbook, by Gillian McKeith.

Awesome recipes! They’re pretty simple AND they consist of high quality ingredients that will have you losing weight, looking awesome and feeling GREAT- and I mean feeling really good about yourself! Food like this is the foundation to a positive attitude about yourself!

Here’s one of the recipes I’m excited to try- hmmm, my mouth waters just thinking about making this dish!

Goat Cheese Salad with Roasted Tomatoes, Peppers and Arugula

Serves 4

4 red peppers, seeded and halved
12 cherry tomatoes
2 tsp olive oil
4 ounces goat cheese, crumbled
2 tbsp pine nuts
1/2 pound arugula
2 tbsp chopped fresh basil

1. Preheat the oven to 400*f
2. Place the peppers (cut side up) and tomatoes on a baking sheet, drizzle
with the olive oil, and roast for 10 minutes. Sprinkle the goat cheese inside the peppers and cook for an additional 5 minutes.
3. Scatter the pine nuts over the peppers and goat cheese and return to the oven for 5 more minutes.
4. Arrange the arugula on 4 plates and top with the peppers and tomatoes.
Serve garnished with the fresh basil.

Notice this recipe is made with simple wholesome ingredients.

Rule of thumb: the simpler and more wholesome the ingredients, the simpler and more wholesome your thoughts. Simpler wholesome thoughts = kind loving thoughts about yourself.

If you try this recipe, notice how you feel after you eat it. Check in with yourself 1-2 hours afterwards- good chance you’ll be in good spirits and enjoying yourself!

Here’s to eating and boosting your confidence at the same time!

With warmth and blessings on your meal,

Andrea

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Ever Desire to Be Your Crazy Beautiful Real Self?

May 10th, 2012

I currently have a different day job from my business.

I’m temporarily helping a non-profit organization with some of their hiring needs. In short, I’m a recruiter.

In this setting, I have found, (and I was guilty of this for sometime), most people are trying to conform. Trying to follow the company rules, doing their best to hide their real personalities and follow the rules of the business. Don’t chit chat too much, be more subdued and quiet, make sure all that you do is in compliance with company rules and policies.

Problem with this? While the company I work for and many companies are great places to work on many levels, this overwhelming feeling to conform and follow company policy has people hiding. Hiding out from who they really are.

People down play their personalities at work. Ever see someone skipping at work? Or, how about dancing around the office? Ever seen someone laugh so hard they almost peed their pants? Or listened to someone swear? What about someone being goofy?

My guess is you haven’t witnessed any of this at work. If you have- very cool!

Here’s the deal. It’s time to step up and be who you really are. You want to stop trying to blend in and follow ALL the rules. This doesn’t mean being dishonest. I support honesty for sure.

What I’m referring to is taking steps to figure out who you really are. Do you like to laugh? Do you like to talk sometimes in a pretend accent (I like to do this sometimes, I even make up languages). Do you have a tendency to swear. Ok, whatever it is DO IT!!! Be you!

Let yourself be free with whatever feels FUN for you!

If you want to feel more awesome then you may have ever felt in your life, you need to start figuring out what feels fun and then doing it and being it!

If being blatantly open with who you really are feels a little intimidating to try- especially at work, begin trying it out somewhere else in your life where you feel safer.

Try it out with your family or your best friend. Slowly but surely let it infiltrate every aspect of your life.

If people start calling you crazy- good- that’s a sign you’re not fitting in and not fitting in is a beautiful thing!!!! It’s the beginning of all things great!

The sooner you allow yourself to be original, to be the funny, savvy silly you you probably are, the sooner your confidence will blossom like the tulips in early spring. (Ok, so forget the tulip comparison)…

Point here- open up, be the real original you- DO NOT CONFORM. Conforming leads to feelings of inadequacy, and loneliness.

Why?

Because your real self is being stifled when you conform. Your real self begins to feel ignored and detached when you try to be something you aren’t- which is what you’re doing when you try to conform.

People who feel lonely and inadequate might look to food, shopping or alcohol to fill that void- definitely counter productive ways to fill the feelings of loneliness.

If you want to bypass the reflex reaction of reaching for one of these temporary “soothers” that never really fully soothes the feelings of loneliness or inadequacy, you’ll want to learn to stand up and be the real YOU!

Not the you that tries to fit someone else’s mold, like the company rules, societal etiquette- whatever…

No, no, no, that won’t do. Ladies (and gentlemen) stand up for yourself, your real self, have fun, be silly, swear, chew with your mouth open, be YOUUUUUUUU!

When you start to practice this, you will feel lighter, happier, freer and you will be a magnet for loads of confidence.

You know what else? By practicing this, you begin to give others around you permission to be their true selves. I consider this one of the top ten gifts you could ever give anyone!

So, I welcome you to practice being real and spreadin’ the realness!

Here’s to being our crazy beautiful true selves,

xo,
Andrea

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Foods that Help You Love Yourself More

April 26th, 2012

There’s a rule of thumb that goes something like this: garbage in, garbage out. To be more specific- eating junk food will create junk thoughts and emotions. Eating high quality REAL foods will create high quality thoughts and emotions. That means eating high quality real foods will help you to look better, yes, I think we’re all aware of this, and looking better is a great way to boost your confidence. But, it goes deeper then this.

Eating real all natural food will help you to think about yourself (and others) in a kinder, more appreciative way. Eating real high quality foods allows you to see the best in yourself and your family.

When the s@#t hits the fan, and it does for everyone at some point, if you’ve been eating high quality real foods, you’re much more apt to handle the situation with grace and understanding. You’ll walk away from the situation feeling good about yourself.

Eating high quality real foods helps you to love yourself more. You look in the mirror and see what you appreciate about you, whole- real food boosts your confidence Big Time!

High quality real food brings balance to the organs in your body- including your brain! If your brain is balanced, it’s much easier to think positive thoughts!

What are high quality real foods?

Foods that grow in the ground, can be picked from trees, grow on a farm or in a garden. Foods that are NOT processed, manufactured. Foods that have one ingredient or very few ingredients. Foods that are chemical free, that means no artificial anything!!! The fewer the ingredients the better!

Super quick high quality food list:

Vegetables
Fruits
Whole grains: brown rice, millet, quinoa, oats
nuts and seeds
beans
organic poultry
wild fish- salmon, tilapia
sea vegetables

Try a little experiment:

Notice next time you eat donuts, cookies, cakes, chips… especially if you eat a fair amount of these, just notice afterward, how you begin to react to the people around you. Notice how you begin to feel about yourself- usually more critical. Just notice.

Now, spend a few days eating real high quality foods like: vegetables from a local farm or garden, organic fruit, nuts, seeds, brown rice, beans, etc.. notice how you feel, notice how you act and react to others and especially to yourself. Keep a food-mood journal for 5+ days. Notice yourself. Compare how you acted with junk food in your body and how you felt and reacted with real, wholesome food in your body. If you really pay attention, you’ll notice a BIG difference.

Decide. How do you want to feel? If you like being less critical of yourself and others, keep going with eating quality foods. If it’s difficult to do this, just add in 1-2 new foods every couple weeks. Don’t worry about taking away the old stuff, there’s a good chance it will begin to fall off your plate, without much effort- really!

Want to find out more regarding the best high quality foods to eat to boost your confidence big time?

Check out the book You Are What You Eat by Gillian McKeith- it’s an excellent resource!

Here’s to healthy, high quality thinking and lots of delicious food that helps to get you there!

With warmth and lots of positive thoughts,

Andrea

PS Would love to hear your thoughts regarding the garbage in garbage out idea or if you’re willing to have a go with the experiment- share with us how it pans out!

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An Exercise that Helps You Feel Better About Yourself

April 12th, 2012

I just started doing some new exercises. I’ve been a fan of yoga and jogging for a while now. Very recently I decided to join my husband at 5:00am in the morning in our basement to try an exercise called Kempo, it’s an exercise that’s a part of a series of exercises in the P90X program.

Kenpo is a combination of boxing, kick boxing and karate moves. Now, I’ve NEVER done anything like this before, mind- you. There I was at 5:00am, sweat pants, t-shirt on, kicking and trying to box simultaneously. I had a hard time initially following all of the moves and my hands and arms were flailing- finding it difficult to punch the air- not quite use to this particular motion.

What I found as my exercise session continued was that I was laughing at myself, moving new muscles, calling out to my husband as he knew the moves better then I, and honestly, enjoying doing something different.

My body loved it! It felt like a good workout! It was a good work out.

My body had gotten accustom to my light jogging and occasional yoga and doing these new moves really seemed to bring it back to life.

I had never planned doing new exercises. As a matter of fact, I had been very against expanding my repertoire of exercises. I’ve enjoyed yoga and jogging, I thought- I have the exercises I like, no need for others.

On this particular morning, I found something new and fun to do. Something that had me feeling great and an added bonus- I was also connecting with my husband in a new and different way!

If you’re feeling concerned about how you look, wishing your body to shift a little here or there or just want to feel energized reinvigorated, and better about yourself, consider opening up your mind and expanding the type of exercising you do.

If you don’t presently exercise, try adding an exercise video to your weekly routine. I recommend you commit to doing it with a friend- that way you can each hold each other accountable.

If you already exercise, then by all means try something new and out of character for you. My Kenpo exercising had me feeling more “masculine” when I was done. What the heck do I mean by that- I mean I felt strong, grounded, easily connected with my inner confidence. Trying something new can help you to feel stronger and more confident too!

Peruse the internet, ask around, find a class to join, a video to buy or rent, and if you feel so inclined get your new exercise groove on!!!

Here’s to confidence and feeling GREAT about yourself!

Warmly,

Andrea!

PS Where are you at with trying new and different forms of exercise? Haven’t gotten started- no problem, would love to hear from you regardless of where you’re at- use the comments section to share your story!

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How Do Your Friends Make You Feel?

March 29th, 2012

I had dinner with a friend over the weekend. It was perfect timing. I was feeling uncomfortable with a self imposed deadline on something I was trying to get done. Having dinner with this woman was wonderful- like a breath of fresh air in my day and in my life- literally!

Spending time with this friend helped me to realign my thinking and emotions so that I could look at my situation and see exactly what I needed to do to feel better. Spending time with this friend was invigorating and motivating. It helped me to align with my best self- my Confident Self!

Some people energize us, while others drain us. It’s true, some people give us energy, while others literally suck it right out of us.

If you’re looking to raise your confidence level and step into a super cool life, you’ll want to start upgrading your friends. Yup- that’s right, it’s a simple equation, spend time with energy boosting friends and how you think and feel about yourself improves, you feel better, your life begins to really improve. Spend time with the latter and watch your self- esteem drop, with your life following suit!

This week’s Confidence Upgrade:

Begin to spend more time with energizing people. Seek them out. Start to let go of relationships with draining friends. Life is meant to be wonderful- hanging out with cool people you respect and admire, people “who’ve got it goin’ on” is an easy fun way to start to attract the greatness in your life you deserve!

Here’s to energizing friends!!!

Warmly,

Andrea!

PS Do you surround yourself with people who you think of as great- or have you settled with whomever has conveniently stuck around in your life? Please share, we’d love to hear!

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